It's my birthday! And as normal, I began to take a few moments this past week to be introspective and self –reflective, taking stock of the past year, and years of my life. Wondering what area, I would like to improve on. But, as I headed down this familiar path, I realized that my practice of self -reflection and introspection really meant minimizing my accomplishments and maximizing the areas of my life where I feel like I've fallen short. It wasn’t really a balanced pra