To most of the world the word “surrender” denotes defeat by the enemy. Images of a white flag being waved as an individual comes out of hiding, hands up and kneels before the enemy. A sign of total and complete submission! I have to admit, that I felt this way about surrendering, equating defeat with failure, and we all know "failure is not an option". So, I have been doing everything in my power to never surrender to the "enemy" under any circumstances. However, as I sou